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Friday, December 8, 2006

Saint Nicholas and the Brothel of Commercialism

The feast of St. Nicholas was on Wednesday of this week (December 6th). I found this great article about St. Nicholas on LifeSiteNews, a great website with alot of great stories. It is great to see a story about St. Nicholas the Bishop, and read a little about why "St. Nick" is synonamous with "Santa Claus". If it is truly better to give than to receive, the gift of purity is one that we can give both to God, and to a future spouse. As with all true gifts, the gift we give is also a gift we recieve, and purity is no exception.




Merry Christmas, and God love you!

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The Real Saint Nick Fought Prostitution
Special to LifeSiteNews.com by Warren Throckmorton, PhD



Given the decision making power of Santa Claus on the matter of gifts, my children make sure they leave Mr. Claus some seriously good cookies on Christmas Eve. However, most children don't know that there is much more to the real Saint Nick than toys and cookies. In addition to being generous, the jolly fellow could easily be considered the patron saint of purity.

Recently looking into the legend of Saint Nick, I learned that Saint Nicholas lived early in the fourth century in what is now Turkey. Orphaned as a young boy, he was left with substantial financial means by his parents. He used this inheritance to benefit others, especially children. Deeply religious, Nicholas became the Bishop of Myra in Turkey and played an important leadership role in the church. Called the Wonderworker, he was well known for his generosity to children, hence his association with the legend of Santa Claus. The story of a benevolent soul giving gifts to children is a part of many cultures with many names. Saint Nick as another name for Santa Claus persists to this day.

I also discovered that Saint Nicholas is a patron saint of virgins. In the Catholic tradition, a patron saint is one who prays to God on behalf of a petitioner. So, if one wants to remain chaste, one may pray to Saint Nicholas who will then lift up the petitioner in spiritual prayer to God. As an aside, his patronage of purity may explain at least one of the criteria for being in either the naughty or nice category when Saint Nick checks and rechecks his list. But I digress. There is more to this story.

Legend has it that Saint Nicholas became aware of a desperately poor parishioner having three daughters with no dowry to recommend them for marriage. The father had planned to sell them into prostitution to provide some means of support. By night, Saint Nicholas secretly brought bags of gold on three separate occasions to the man's home. These generous visitations allowed the three daughters to have sufficient means to avoid whoredom and later strike a marriage covenant. On the third visit to deliver the gift, Nicholas was caught in the act of generosity by the grateful father.

Many make the Santa Claus-like association of this story to Saint Nicholas the gift giver. I see an additional angle. For reasons that often involve money, women today have few benefactors, few Saint Nicks. Bob Dylan sang truly two decades ago that today's culture seems to promote "old men turning young daughters into whores." A look at any magazine rack will tell you that there is a market for flesh and the demographic is predominantly male, ages 12 and up. Research company Visiongain estimates the pornography market to be a 70 billion industry in 2006. That is a lot of gold being used to degrade women rather than enhance their virtue.

Blending traditional gender roles has been little help here. Women today are not, nor should they be, as helpless as those three girls aided by Saint Nicholas. However, girls gone wild with sexual freedom most often leads to exploitation by men. I doubt we would see as much skin if there were no gawking male purchasers, eager to buy and sell innocence as commerce.

Harmful to both men and women, graphic sexuality, even the somewhat scaled down prime time variety, contributes to the overall commodification of sex. Viewed through the eyes of a pornographer, sex is commerce and sexual purity is restraint of trade.

We need Saint Nicholas today. We need the gifts of chastity and modesty. We need more respecters of purity and fewer of those who would sell young people into the brothel of commercialism.We need you today Saint Nicholas, the Wonderworker. Our sons and daughters need the good gifts of those who truly value their health and purity.

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Warren Throckmorton, PhD is an Associate Professor of Psychology and Fellow for Psychology and Public Policy in the Center for Vision and Values at Grove City (PA) College. Dr. Throckmorton is past-president of the American Mental Health Counselors Association. His columns have been published by over 100 newspapers nationwide and can be contacted through his website at http://www.drthrockmorton.com/

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7 comments:

Beth Lemer said...

I NEVER knew this....thanks for the info!

Anonymous said...

" I also discovered that Saint Nicholas is a patron saint of virgins." This I did not know! The title says it all ... Brothel of Commercialism. I have a great "unkown author" piece that talks about a dream Mary had, with people giving gifts to each other and not to her son. We soooo need to pray for our society. Yes, chastity and modesty are desperately needed. Thanks for the great post.

Anonymous said...

thank you for this father! i too did not know that Saint Nicholas is a patron saint of virgins. how wonderful is that!!

Anonymous said...

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Thanks for the info!

Katie Alender said...

Nice blog, Father V!

CatholicGirlie said...

I am glad to read about the real St Nicholas!

jadeums8479 said...

I'm really Glad you posted this. We need to get the word out there about women and defending themselves against getting used. Most women don't even understand why it's bad, let alone men.